I picked the week of a trip to launch this little experiment of mine.
Nothing like the planes, trains, automobiles of getting to and from to
bring out kindness towards others. It is not easy to be kind when being
shoved through security at 5 AM, let me tell ya.
But I do
have to say, I did see other people's kindness in all my travel
annoyance. Two people gave up seats on a full tram to allow a mom and
baby to sit down. An ancient man had the entire line at the pastry cart
cracking up about his choice of doughnut and was beyond polite to the
cashiers. A good smile and warm heart was had by all.
My
new found focus on kindness gave me a solid 26 hour bump on the kindness
scale. However, a busy work week with many competing interest pushed my
new-found virtue off stage. Sigh. Maybe next week...
In all this hustle and bustle, I was reminded of a very kind
person in my life. My mechanic. You see, I drive a 2004 honda civic
(that I no longer love) named Slick. This wonderful mechanic takes such
good care of Slick that he is never going to die. But The Village Smith,
as he calls himself, is much more than a regular ole mechanic. He is
off-the-charts kind when you interact with him. My most recent
interaction with The Village Smith went something like this.
Me: Hi Village Smith (VS), this is Michelle calling.
You take care of my honda civic.
VS: I sure do, Michelle, and I'm so blessed to be able
to do that. Thanks for calling me today.
I am so stunned at his sincerity and kindness that I almost
forgot why I called (some wheel-barring something something). Anyway,
that conversation stayed with me all day. It wasn't lip service; VS
really did feel blessed to work on my car.
I'm sure at
some point in my life & relationships, I've said something as kind
to someone. But I know I don't do it every day, to any random person
that crosses my path.
Do you? If so, how do you make sure
to dole out kindness on the passers-by in your life?
This kindness thing is definitely harder than I thought...
I love this story...what a sweet man!!! Thanks for sharing. I want to be more like the Village Smith.
ReplyDeleteme too, Elle.
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